In my latest column for Hinge IRL, I address the issue of being fetishized for your size when dating online.

Asking in no way guarantees you'll get what you want but, theoretically, it puts you one step closer to getting what it is that you desi

I'm over having to consider kids, wives, ex-girlfriends, live-in exes, live-in babymamas, trying to get my own place, no career-having--

When I got smaller, I realized that although I was dating more I was enjoying men less.

"You're so pretty" doesn't mean "You're so pretty I'd like to date you." It's a statement of fact, k

If I'm fat today, I was fat a month ago when you were trying to take my fat ass to the movies, and that means you wanted my fat ass.

Your body says yes but is your mind saying no?