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Am I Being Fetishized On Dating Apps Because I'm A Dark-Skinned Big Girl?
In my latest column for Hinge IRL, I address the issue of being fetishized for your size when dating online.
Brande Victorian
Jul 14, 20172 min read
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Do You Ask Men For What You Want?
Asking in no way guarantees you'll get what you want but, theoretically, it puts you one step closer to getting what it is that you desi
Brande Victorian
Jun 28, 20174 min read
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For Once It Would Be Nice To Meet A Man Without A Situation
I'm over having to consider kids, wives, ex-girlfriends, live-in exes, live-in babymamas, trying to get my own place, no career-having--
Brande Victorian
May 30, 20174 min read
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Dating While Dieting Part 2: This Isn't Fun
When I got smaller, I realized that although I was dating more I was enjoying men less.
Brande Victorian
May 4, 20173 min read
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Sometimes A Compliment Is Just A Compliment
"You're so pretty" doesn't mean "You're so pretty I'd like to date you." It's a statement of fact, k
Brande Victorian
Apr 24, 20174 min read
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That's Not How This Works: You Don't Get To Call Me Fat When I Don't Like You
If I'm fat today, I was fat a month ago when you were trying to take my fat ass to the movies, and that means you wanted my fat ass.
Brande Victorian
Mar 30, 20175 min read
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Dating While Dieting Pt. 1: A Cautionary Don't Do It (Yet) Tale
Your body says yes but is your mind saying no?
Brande Victorian
Mar 28, 20175 min read
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